Wednesday, November 19, 2008

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

...find out what it means to me! Okay so in this entry, I would like to hear from all of you what respect means to you. Now that the wedding is over, I've been having flashbacks (and crazy weird dreams) about some situations that happened over this past year leading up to and including the wedding day. As I look back and analyze each situation, I realize that everyone has different definations of respect. For instance, well...I don't think I can really give a for instance without reliving it and I'm really trying to put it behind me. Which brings me to another issue...trying to put it behind me. I know klf has given me some great advice and I love her for it but sometimes those things are easier said than done. So please leave me a comment and let me know what respect means to you and maybe it will help me figure out things.

On other notes, Matt got a PT job and I did too; they are both seasonal. We are worried that it might be a bad winter and with his line of work, he may not be working much so this will help supplement and if the winter turns out okay then this is just extra present money. As I told my boss today, it means he can buy me a bigger Christmas present! This week kind of stinks because our schedules are totally opposite and I haven't seen him since Monday night and won't see him until Saturday night then he's off to hunt again on Sunday (he wants me to go but I'm not so sure this time, I might take klf's advice and have a girl's day to myself). He has his schedule through January so I'm going to turn in my availability to fit his so we can at least see each other SOME nights.

Even more exciting than PT jobs...I got my WEDDING PICTURES!!! So in an upcoming blog (maybe Friday), I will pick out some of my faves and post them. How I'm going to narrow down 1500 to like 5 for my blog...I have no idea!!!

And even more exciting that PT jobs and wedding pictures...this is the last full-week of work until 2009!?! How exciting is that?

3 comments :

Cecilia said...

Ohhhhhh, that is a really good question!! For me respect means two things: tolerance and regard. I must be tolerant of some people whether it be some annoying thing they do or say or some belief they may have that I may not necessarily agre with. Of course, this is within reason. I would not tolerate crime obviously. Regard is similar to tolerance. The best way to put it: this person means something more to me. They are more valuable, crucial. Let us not forget that respect MUST be earned.

Kristal said...

Hmmm...I don't think I can really answer this question objectively because I know the background. But I know that "moving on" is hard to do. But I just remember that I really did enjoy my wedding planning and my wedding day, so it doesn't matter what kinks someone tried to throw in.

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